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You've been there before - waiting in awkward pre-meeting silence while participants trickle into your Zoom meeting. Those first few minutes can feel like an eternity, especially when new faces appear in the gallery view. As the host, you wonder: "How can I make participants, especially new ones, feel welcomed? How do I 'warm up' the meeting to make it not silent and awkward while waiting?"
Creating a welcoming environment for newcomers isn't just about being polite—it's about establishing psychological safety that encourages engagement, innovation, and authentic connection from the very start. When done right, your welcome sets the tone for everything that follows.
This comprehensive guide provides concrete strategies, scripts, and frameworks to transform those awkward first moments into meaningful connections that make new participants feel genuinely included and valued.
The First Five Minutes: Turning Awkward Silence into a Warm Welcome

Those initial 5-10 minutes when participants are joining can make or break first impressions. Instead of letting pre-meeting silence dominate, use these strategies to create immediate engagement:
1. Set the Atmosphere
Share a Welcome Screen: Rather than a blank screen, prepare a simple welcome slide with the meeting title, agenda highlights, and a warm greeting.
Play Background Music: Soft, instrumental music creates a relaxed atmosphere as people join. As one meeting host suggests, "Share some music to create a relaxed atmosphere while people join."
Use a Count Down Timer: Display a visible timer showing when the meeting will officially begin. This gives people a clear expectation and reduces anxiety about when to speak up.
2. The Personal Greeting
Acknowledge each person as they enter the virtual room:
Script: "Hi Sophia, welcome! Glad you could join us today."
This simple acknowledgment makes a powerful first impression. It signals that you notice each person and value their presence.
3. Light Interactive Engagement
While waiting for everyone to join, offer low-pressure ways for people to interact:
Interactive Whiteboard: Create a simple prompt like "Where are you joining from today?" and invite participants to place a digital pin on a map or add their response.
Quick Polls: Launch a quick poll with a fun, low-stakes question like "What's your go-to morning beverage?" or "What's the weather like where you are?"
Chat Waterfall: Ask everyone to type their response to a question in the chat but not hit enter until you give a countdown. When everyone sends simultaneously, it creates a "waterfall" effect that's engaging and inclusive.
Dad Jokes Corner: Share a groan-worthy dad joke and invite others to contribute their favorites. Humor can quickly break tension and create shared moments of lightness.
Creating Psychological Safety: The Foundation of Inclusion
Before diving into meeting content, establishing psychological safety is crucial. This concept, defined as "an environment where individuals feel safe to express concerns, questions, and ideas without fear of personal repercussions," creates the foundation for meaningful participation.
1. State the Purpose and Expectations Clearly
Anxiety often stems from uncertainty. Reduce this by:
Distributing the Agenda Beforehand: Send materials in advance so participants can prepare mentally.
Clarify the Meeting's Purpose:
Script: "Welcome, everyone. The goal for today is to brainstorm solutions for Project X. To make sure we hear from everyone, we'll be going around the room for input on each item. All ideas are welcome—there are no bad suggestions in a brainstorm."
2. Model Vulnerability
As the host, demonstrate that it's safe to be imperfect:
Script: "I was looking at this data last week and initially drew the wrong conclusion. It was only when I spoke with Sarah that I realized my mistake. It's a great reminder that we all see things differently."
When leaders admit their own mistakes, it creates permission for others to be authentic without fear of judgment.

3. Create a Safe Space for Questions
Explicitly invite questions and validate those who ask them:
Script: "I want to remind everyone that there are no wrong questions here. Please feel free to share your thoughts and ideas at any point."
4. Address the Chat Monitor Role
Assign someone to monitor the chat for questions or comments from participants who might be hesitant to speak up verbally.
Script: "Alex will be our chat monitor today. If you're more comfortable typing your questions or comments, Alex will make sure they get addressed."
Beyond "Tell Us About Yourself": Meaningful Introductory Protocols
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Many participants dread the standard "tell us about yourself" introduction. As one meeting attendee shared, "The meeting was already boring; pretty sure nobody cared about my quick bio."
Instead, use these structured approaches that create genuine connection without putting anyone on the spot:
A) Quick & Easy Icebreakers (for any meeting)
Two Truths and One Lie:
- Time needed: 5-10 minutes
- Instructions: Each person shares three statements about themselves—two true and one false. Others guess which is the lie.
- Script: "To help us get to know each other better, let's play Two Truths and One Lie. I'll go first to demonstrate..."
Weekend in a Word:
- Time needed: 2-5 minutes
- Instructions: Ask participants to describe their weekend (or mood, or current project) in just one word.
- Script: "Let's do a quick check-in. In just one word, how would you describe your weekend?"
Emoji Check-in:
- Time needed: 1-2 minutes
- Instructions: Ask participants to drop an emoji in the chat that represents how they're feeling.
- Script: "Before we dive in, let's do a quick emoji check-in. Please drop an emoji in the chat that represents how you're feeling right now."
B) Deeper Connection-Building Activities (for team meetings/workshops)
The Desert Island:
- Time needed: 10-20 minutes
- Instructions: Ask participants what three items they would bring to a desert island and why. This reveals priorities and personality.
- Script: "Imagine you're being sent to a desert island for a month. What three items would you bring and why? This helps us understand what you value most."
Snapshot of My Life:
- Time needed: 10-20 minutes
- Instructions: Ask participants (ideally in advance) to find a photograph on their phone or computer that represents something important to them and share it for 30-60 seconds.
- Script: "Today, I've asked everyone to bring a photo that represents something important to you. We'll take turns sharing our images and why they matter to us."
Guess the Desk:
- Time needed: 15-30 minutes
- Instructions: Have team members anonymously submit a picture of their workspace. Show the pictures one by one and have the team guess whose desk it is.
- Script: "I've collected images of everyone's workspaces. Let's see if we can guess whose is whose, and learn a bit about each other's work environments."
Maintaining Inclusive Participation Throughout
Creating a welcoming environment extends beyond the first few minutes. Use these techniques to ensure continued engagement:
1. Assign Specific Roles
Give participants clear ways to contribute:
Script: "Jenna will document minutes today, while Tom will facilitate the discussion. I'll provide background on the agenda items, and Carlos will be our timekeeper."
This distribution of responsibility creates structure and gives newcomers a defined way to participate.
2. Recognize and Acknowledge Contributions
Validate input, especially from new or quiet participants:
Script: "That's a great point, Maria. I appreciate you bringing that perspective to the conversation."
Taking visible notes while someone shares demonstrates that their contribution is valued.
3. Encourage (But Don't Force) Video
Video enhances connection but should remain optional:
Script: "If you're able to, I invite you to turn on your camera so we can connect a bit better. No pressure if you can't for any reason."
4. Structure Participation Equitably
Don't rely solely on spontaneous participation:
Round-Robin Format: Go around the "room" systematically to ensure everyone has a chance to speak. Breakout Rooms: For larger meetings, use breakout rooms with specific prompts to ensure everyone participates in smaller groups.
Common Pitfalls to Avoid
Even with the best intentions, hosts can inadvertently create uncomfortable environments. Watch out for these common mistakes:
Ignoring Non-Verbal Cues: In virtual settings, pay careful attention to facial expressions, tone of voice, and chat messages that might indicate discomfort or desire to speak.
Dominating the Conversation: As the host, your role is to facilitate, not dominate. Monitor your own talking time.
Assuming Trivial Introductions Are Sufficient: Generic "tell us about yourself" prompts often feel performative and disconnected from the meeting's purpose.
Forgetting to Follow Up: Send meeting notes and action items promptly to show that participants' time and contributions were valued.
Conclusion
Creating a welcoming environment for new Zoom participants isn't just about being nice—it's about building the foundation for effective collaboration, innovation, and team cohesion. By addressing the pre-meeting silence, establishing psychological safety, using meaningful introductory protocols, and maintaining inclusive participation, you transform what could be an awkward experience into an opportunity for genuine connection.
Remember that the way you welcome new participants sets the tone for their entire experience with your team or organization. With these strategies, you can ensure that everyone feels seen, heard, and valued from the moment they join your virtual room.
Your thoughtful approach to welcoming newcomers won't just make meetings more pleasant—it will unlock the diverse perspectives and ideas that drive true innovation and success.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why is it important to welcome new participants in a Zoom meeting?
It is important to welcome new participants to establish psychological safety from the start. A warm welcome encourages engagement, fosters innovation, and makes newcomers feel valued, which sets a positive and productive tone for the entire meeting and future collaborations.
How can I make the first few minutes of a Zoom meeting less awkward?
You can make the first few minutes less awkward by proactively managing the pre-meeting time instead of letting silence dominate. Best practices include sharing a welcome screen with an agenda, playing soft background music, personally greeting each person by name as they join, and using low-pressure interactive elements like a quick poll or a chat waterfall.
What are some good icebreakers for virtual meetings?
Good icebreakers for virtual meetings are quick, inclusive, and aligned with the meeting's tone. For any meeting, try simple activities like "Two Truths and One Lie," asking for a "Weekend in a Word," or an "Emoji Check-in." For deeper team-building, consider more involved activities like "The Desert Island" or "Snapshot of My Life."
How do you create psychological safety in a virtual meeting?
To create psychological safety, a host must foster an environment where participants feel safe to express ideas without fear of negative consequences. You can achieve this by clearly stating the meeting's purpose and expectations, modeling vulnerability by admitting your own mistakes, explicitly inviting questions, and assigning roles like a chat monitor to ensure all voices are heard.
What should I do if some participants are hesitant to speak up?
If some participants are hesitant to speak up, use structured participation methods to create opportunities for them to contribute. A round-robin format ensures everyone gets a turn to speak, while assigning a chat monitor gives people a way to contribute via text. Using breakout rooms for smaller group discussions can also make it easier for quieter individuals to share their thoughts.
Is it okay to require participants to turn on their video?
It is generally best to encourage, but not require, participants to turn on their video. While video can enhance connection, people may have valid reasons for keeping their cameras off. You can frame it as an invitation, saying something like, "If you're able to, I invite you to turn on your camera," which respects individual circumstances while promoting engagement.

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